Tuesday, October 17, 2023

Friends or Foe?

Okey my dear friends, let me writes about Friends or Foe?

It's been a while since I was practicing to write my thoughts in english.

Let me practice to write in english and please let me know about my writing. Thank you.

When it comes to friends, it's important to ask ourselves: Are they true friends or just mere acquaintances? True friends are not merely people who support everything we say or do. They are individuals who have the courage to confront us when we're wrong and encourage us to improve ourselves. They strive to guide us in the right direction, reminding us of what is righteous and discouraging us from engaging in wrongdoing. In other words, they embody the Islamic concept of "amar ma'ruf nahi munkar" – enjoining good and forbidding evil.

It's crucial to carefully consider who we call our friends. Are they genuinely good friends or do they lead us astray? Are they only present when they need something from us? It's not always easy to distinguish between true friends and those who may not have our best interests at heart. However, we can evaluate their actions and how they contribute to our overall well-being.

True friends are like rays of sunshine in our lives. They bring positivity, support, and genuine care. They stick by us through thick and thin, always offering a helping hand when we need it most. They celebrate our successes and provide comfort during our failures. They inspire us to be better versions of ourselves and motivate us to reach for our dreams.

On the other hand, disguised as friends, there may be individuals who are not genuinely concerned about our growth or happiness. They may appear friendly when it's convenient for them but lack consistency in their support and presence. These individuals may subtly steer us towards negative paths or discourage us from pursuing our goals. It's important to be cautious and observant of such people, allowing us to protect ourselves from detrimental influences.

So, friends or foes? It's up to us to discern and differentiate. True friends are precious gems, while others may just be passing figures in our lives. Let's surround ourselves with individuals who embody the qualities of true friendship – those who uplift us, keep us grounded, and encourage us to be our best selves. Remember, true friends are those who remind us of our purpose, lead us towards righteousness, and bring out the best in us.

So are you sure to give up on your true friends because they are criticizing or justifying our wrongdoing? And are sure you are comfortable with "yes" friends ???

Ask your conscience....

Okey then, I'm not sure anybody will read my writing now. But its okay I just love to try made a writing in english. I hope I didn't make any grammatically errors.

Thank you for reading it

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